STORY OF MIDDLE CLASS

I  also belong from middle class family but my purpose is not to expect any sympathy or consolation from the readers. As middle classes are sympathize many times which somehow makes us weaker or feeling bad.

  The term middle class is itself a story. Our country has most no of middle class family.It is the codition where we are neither happy from our heart nor shows sorrow to the world. In outer view we are well settled but internally its fully hollow. We are hoped by ourselves that we are much more better than most people who are also middle class or less than that but we always compare oursevelves to the rich category and tries to be like them.When we watch news like theft, kidnapping and murder of any or somehow related to rich people we think that we are lucky and happy but our brain insists and always thinks how to become rich.
    If we talk about childhood, much differences are not seen as child is not able to differentiate between the categories you belong from. Their demands to parents and guardians are about same but in the fullfillment of those demands, the differences arises again. As in case of toys you must have observed when you visits a richer friend or relative's home. But from God's grace child doesn't care for that and life continues and reach to adolscence.
     When we start to go to school we know about the differences by observing the facilities given to your classmates. In middle class family nothing is preferred over studies, at this time.When we become teenagers, it increases and we sometimes become disagree over any decisions. It is the stage where we find qualities of ourselves, we think that nothing is impossible. Hearing the proverb "Pen is mightier than the sword" motivates us to do something but there are some deviation also like cricket, mobiles etc. In some days before when mobile was not available to students cricket has a different level of attracting power either for playing or watch on television. But for middle class family all the stuffs excluding study are useless and time killing activity which also sometime causes us to be away from the extra curricular activities in school and college.
      We feel like we should work hard to get upto rich category but our family members are more careful for our career than us and always tries that we secure a fixed time and fixed salary job. They don't want that we should also face the struggle what they have faced. They are also right at these places with choices but it becomes obstacle for whom who wants to do some extra or entrepreneurs. They prefer jobs to businesses. This is because they think business nothing but opening a shop and handle that and in that case chances of loss is also high.
      If we tell them how to become rich and tells the benefits of businesses over jobs, we try to tell that we can also do then they cann't even assume it and think it like a dream or impossible whether they show or not.
     After this stage of our life, if we opposes our families and try to do something of our choice, if you succeed then noone tells anything but in case you fails it's like you have done the mistake for your entire life. At any stage when you try to oppose your this experiment will be remembered which forces us to do according to them which somehow kills our talent and we can't give our 100% to that thing.
    If we do according to our parents wish, do fixed time and fixed salary job, we are said ideal.
   I will tell do whatever you want but never leave your family.

Prince Shukla

From my real experience

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परीक्षा के एक दिन पहले भारतीय रेल के साथ

यह वास्तविक अनुभव की एक कहानी है।

मेरे दोस्त यह भारत है और हमें बताया जाता है कि अखिल भारतीय हमारा देश है और भारतीय एक हैं।

मुझे लगता है कि जिस संगठन ने इस कथन का समर्थन सबसे ज्यादा किया है, वह परीक्षा का आयोजन करने वाली संस्थाये है जो कि वह अपने देश के  सरकारी नौकरियों में उम्मीदवार के परीक्षा केंद्र को 500 से 1000 किलोमीटर दूर रखकर हमारे देश की भारतीय सरकारी नौकरियों में चयन के लिए प्राधिकरण आयोजित करे, और उम्मीदवार दो प्रकार के हैं वह जो नए स्थानों का दौरा करने के मकसद के साथ फॉर्म भरता है और दूसरा जो वास्तव में चुना जाना चाहता है,

इसी तरह के छात्र परीक्षा से पहले दिन के अध्ययन के बारे में सोच भी दो प्रकार के होते हैं, जो सोचते हैं कि उन्हें पढ़े गए सभी विषयों को संशोधित करना है और परीक्षा के आखिरी पल तक पढ़ना है और मेरे जैसे दूसरे जो सोचते हैं कि अगर आपने अच्छी तरह से तैयार किया है परीक्षा से पहले परेशान होने और आराम करने की कोई ज़रूरत नहीं है अन्यथा यदि आपने परीक्षा के दिन तक पढ़ा नहीं है तो एक दिन का काम और अधिक प्रभावित नहीं होगा।

जब भारतीय रेलवे की बात आती है, तो इस बारे में क्या कहना है, परिवहन के इस तरीके से यात्रा हर किसी के चलने या किसी भी समस्याग्रस्त स्थिति के कारण यादगार हो जाती है, लेकिन आजकल सरकार इसे सुधारने के लिए काम कर रही है।

परीक्षा के लिए छात्रों परीक्षा से पहले पूरी रात तैयार करते हैं लेकिन यहां छात्र को परीक्षा केंद्र तक पहुंचने के लिए पूरी रात यात्रा करने की जरूरत है। और परीक्षा के दिनों में सामान्य डिब्बे में यात्रा करना एक और यादगार अनुभव है, यदि आप 72 सीटों के डिब्बे में जानवरों की तरह यात्रा करते हैं, जिसमें लगभग 300 लोग यात्रा कर रहे हैं जहां आपको खड़े होने के लिए समायोजित करने की आवश्यकता है और यदि आप हैं सीट पर बैठने के बाद आपको सह-यात्री द्वारा सहयोग करने की आवश्यकता होती है ताकि आपको अपने शरीर को आराम करने की आवश्यकता हो। यह यात्रा पार्सल होने की तुलना में कहीं अधिक भिन्न नहीं है, लेकिन इसे जाने दें क्योंकि हमारा देश विकासशील है और जनता को समर्थन देना चाहिए, जब यह एक विकसित देश बन जाए, शायद हम आसानी से यात्रा कर सकें, अपनी आशा न खोये और धैर्य रखें उस दिन के आने के लिए।

इस तरह की स्थिति में, छात्र जो पहले प्रकार के हैं, जो आखिरी पल तक अध्ययन करते हैं, इस स्थिति में अध्ययन करने के लिए स्वयं को समायोजित कर लेते हैं और ऐसी स्थिति में परीक्षा केंद्र पहुंचे हैं कि यह उनका जीवन सबसे महत्वपूर्ण महत्वाकांक्षा है और उन्हें इस परीक्षा को जरूरी रूप से पास करना होगा। अगर आप हमारे देश के विभिन्न हिस्सों से आने वाले उम्मीदवारों के बीच संचार सुनेंगे, आपको लगता है कि उन्हें इसकी सख्त जरूरत है। कुछ छात्र अपने पिछले अनुभवों के बारे में चर्चा करते हैं, फिर वे अंतिम चयन सूची को छूने के बाद नौकरी पाने से कैसे वंचित रह गए, जबकि कुछ आरक्षण प्रणाली को शाप दे रहे थे। कुछ बार वे डरते हैं कि उन्हें प्रवेश करने की अनुमति दी जाएगी या नहीं, क्योंकि कभी-कभी कर्मचारी सीधे यह कह देते हैं कि उनका चेहरा आईडी कार्ड या प्रवेश पत्र में फोटो से मेल नहीं खाता है।

अंत में उम्मीदवार परीक्षा कक्ष में प्रवेश करता है और खुद को वहाँ समय पर वहां पहुंचने के लिए भगवान का धन्यवाद करता है क्योंकि कुछ छात्र समय पर नहीं पहुंच सकते थे क्योंकि शहर में भारतीय रेलगाड़ियों या सड़क परिवहन के असामान्य चलने के चलते क्योकि बहुत अधिक छात्रो की परीक्षा एक ही तारीख में हो जाती है। यदि आपने ऑफ़लाइन परीक्षा दी है तो आपको ऐसा अनुभव प्राप्त हो सकता है। अब परीक्षा ऑनलाइन आयोजित की जाती है जो महीनो तक जारी  रहती है जो किसी भी तरह से इस समस्या को गंभीर से कुछ हद तक कम करता है।

अब छात्र की दिल की धड़कन उन प्रश्नों का सामना करने के लिए तेज़ हो जाती है जो वे प्राप्त करने वाले हैं और परीक्षा का समय कैसे गुजरता है, एक परीक्षार्थी ही समझ सकता है। इस कुछ घंटे की परीक्षा के लिए उन्होंने वहां जाने में इतना समय गंवा दिया है। परीक्षा के बाद परीक्षा उत्तीर्ण या अनुतीर्ण होने की मिश्रित भावना के साथ परीक्षा कक्ष से बाहर आते है, जबकि अन्य प्रकार के छात्र जो यहां घूमने के उद्देश्यों से आए हैं, रोमांचक रूप से आते हैं और योजना बनाना शुरू कर देते हैं उनके पास के पर्यटन स्थलों का भ्रमण करने के लिए और जो छात्र पूरी तैयारी के साथ आये थे आशा और निराशा के भाव के साथ, वे भारतीय रेलवे के साथ एक नई यादगार यात्रा के साथ घर वापसी के लिये रवाना हो गए।

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A DAY BEFORE EXAM IN INDIAN RAIL

It is a story from real experience.
My friend It's India and we are told that All India is our country and indians are one.

I think that the organisation who has supporterd the most this statement are the examination conducting authorities for selection in indian government jobs of our country by assigning the examination centre of a candidate 500 to 1000 km from his home town and here, candidates are of two types one who fills the form with only motive to touring new places and the other who really wants to be selected,

similarly students whose thinking about study the day before exam are also of two types one who thinks that they have to revise all the topics they have read and read till the last moment of the exam and another like me who thinks that if you have prepared well no need to be tensed and relax before exam otherwise if you have not read till the day of exam one day work won't affect much more.

When it comes to indian railways what to say about, every travelling by this mode of transport becomes memorable because of its late running or any problematic condition you faced but nowdays government is working on it to improve.  

For exam students prepare full night before exam but here student needs to travel full night to reach to the examination centre. And also travelling in general compartment in the days of exam is another memorable experience you can relate only if you have travelled like animals in the compartment of 72 seats in which about 300 people are travelling where you need to be adjusted for standing and if you are seating on a seat then you need to be cooperated by co-passenger to relax your body in case you need it. This travelling is not much more differ than that of being a parcel but let it go because our country is under develop and public should support, when it becomes a develop country perhaps we can travel easily, don't lose your hope and keep patience for this day to come.

In such type of situation, student who are of first type who study till the last moment adjust themselves to study in this situation and reached the examination centre in such condition that it's his life most important ambition and they have to pass this exam necessarily.If you will hear the the communication between candidates reaching from different part of our country, you will think that they necessarily need it. Some students discuss about their past experiences, how they remained from getting the job after about to touch the final selection list while some are cursing the reservation system. Some times they are afraid of that they will be allowed to enter or not as sometimes staffs directly fobid that his face is not matching with id card or photo in admit card.

Finally candidate enters in  the examination hall and relax himself  and thanks god for reaching there on time as some students could not reach on time due to unusual running of indian trains or traffics in the city which has risen up due to much more students exam was on same date in the city. If you have given offline exam you might have gain such experience. Now a days exam is conducted online which continues for monyhs which somehow lessen this problem from critical to less than normal.

Now student's heartbeat becomes fast to face the questions they are about to get and how the examination hour passes , an examinee can understand. For this some hour of examination he has lost so much time in going there.After exam candidates comes out of examination hall with mixed emotion of getting passed or not, whereas other type of student who has come here for touring purposes comes excitingly and started planning to visit tourist places near him and that students who prepared for this examonation with mixed hope and disappointment continues to go back with a new memorable journey with indian railways.

Prince shukla from my past experience

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My thinking about life

Read only if you don't curse yourself if you lose your 2 minutes in reading this,

In today's world people are struggling to exist on this planet like their role model but i think that life situations are not same for everyone if we try to copy from other's then it would not work for us as it is said that life is full up of surprise tests if we try to copy from other we will fail because everybody gets different question paper.Then another option we are told is that do whatever you want from your heart but i think that if you have not experienced everything how would you know what you like the most from your heart, if you try two things to do in life one you like more than that of other but it doesn't mean that you will not like to do another third option if you get in your life, it may be more interesting than the both. So i think do whatever you want but not like you will not see next opportunity and don't stuck up to anything that you are doing and i think people should do the right things but should not waste their time to prove that they are right and be whatever you are do not try to prove yourself less than or more than what you are in actual i.e. be yourself and proud to be that. what do you want to is decided by your interests, life situations but the way of doing should be yours. In case of fate and labour, i can say that labour is important but fate can also not be negotiated because if you see two children borning in a rich and a poor family trying to achieve same goal we see that the richer got some more facilities in comparison of that poor boy who needs some extra efforts to be equivalent so it may be the cause of fate. Hence i think stop comparing to others be the real yourself do whatever you want to do in your life and gain as much experience as you can and live your life, enjoy it, don't lose it in comparison to others and cursing your past as past can not be changed but future can be done right by doing right things in present.
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