I also belong from middle class family but my purpose is not to expect any sympathy or consolation from the readers. As middle classes are sympathize many times which somehow makes us weaker or feeling bad.
The term middle class is itself a story. Our country has most no of middle class family.It is the codition where we are neither happy from our heart nor shows sorrow to the world. In outer view we are well settled but internally its fully hollow. We are hoped by ourselves that we are much more better than most people who are also middle class or less than that but we always compare oursevelves to the rich category and tries to be like them.When we watch news like theft, kidnapping and murder of any or somehow related to rich people we think that we are lucky and happy but our brain insists and always thinks how to become rich.
If we talk about childhood, much differences are not seen as child is not able to differentiate between the categories you belong from. Their demands to parents and guardians are about same but in the fullfillment of those demands, the differences arises again. As in case of toys you must have observed when you visits a richer friend or relative's home. But from God's grace child doesn't care for that and life continues and reach to adolscence.
When we start to go to school we know about the differences by observing the facilities given to your classmates. In middle class family nothing is preferred over studies, at this time.When we become teenagers, it increases and we sometimes become disagree over any decisions. It is the stage where we find qualities of ourselves, we think that nothing is impossible. Hearing the proverb "Pen is mightier than the sword" motivates us to do something but there are some deviation also like cricket, mobiles etc. In some days before when mobile was not available to students cricket has a different level of attracting power either for playing or watch on television. But for middle class family all the stuffs excluding study are useless and time killing activity which also sometime causes us to be away from the extra curricular activities in school and college.
We feel like we should work hard to get upto rich category but our family members are more careful for our career than us and always tries that we secure a fixed time and fixed salary job. They don't want that we should also face the struggle what they have faced. They are also right at these places with choices but it becomes obstacle for whom who wants to do some extra or entrepreneurs. They prefer jobs to businesses. This is because they think business nothing but opening a shop and handle that and in that case chances of loss is also high.
If we tell them how to become rich and tells the benefits of businesses over jobs, we try to tell that we can also do then they cann't even assume it and think it like a dream or impossible whether they show or not.
After this stage of our life, if we opposes our families and try to do something of our choice, if you succeed then noone tells anything but in case you fails it's like you have done the mistake for your entire life. At any stage when you try to oppose your this experiment will be remembered which forces us to do according to them which somehow kills our talent and we can't give our 100% to that thing.
If we do according to our parents wish, do fixed time and fixed salary job, we are said ideal.
I will tell do whatever you want but never leave your family.
If we talk about childhood, much differences are not seen as child is not able to differentiate between the categories you belong from. Their demands to parents and guardians are about same but in the fullfillment of those demands, the differences arises again. As in case of toys you must have observed when you visits a richer friend or relative's home. But from God's grace child doesn't care for that and life continues and reach to adolscence.
When we start to go to school we know about the differences by observing the facilities given to your classmates. In middle class family nothing is preferred over studies, at this time.When we become teenagers, it increases and we sometimes become disagree over any decisions. It is the stage where we find qualities of ourselves, we think that nothing is impossible. Hearing the proverb "Pen is mightier than the sword" motivates us to do something but there are some deviation also like cricket, mobiles etc. In some days before when mobile was not available to students cricket has a different level of attracting power either for playing or watch on television. But for middle class family all the stuffs excluding study are useless and time killing activity which also sometime causes us to be away from the extra curricular activities in school and college.
We feel like we should work hard to get upto rich category but our family members are more careful for our career than us and always tries that we secure a fixed time and fixed salary job. They don't want that we should also face the struggle what they have faced. They are also right at these places with choices but it becomes obstacle for whom who wants to do some extra or entrepreneurs. They prefer jobs to businesses. This is because they think business nothing but opening a shop and handle that and in that case chances of loss is also high.
If we tell them how to become rich and tells the benefits of businesses over jobs, we try to tell that we can also do then they cann't even assume it and think it like a dream or impossible whether they show or not.
After this stage of our life, if we opposes our families and try to do something of our choice, if you succeed then noone tells anything but in case you fails it's like you have done the mistake for your entire life. At any stage when you try to oppose your this experiment will be remembered which forces us to do according to them which somehow kills our talent and we can't give our 100% to that thing.
If we do according to our parents wish, do fixed time and fixed salary job, we are said ideal.
I will tell do whatever you want but never leave your family.
Prince Shukla
From my real experience
